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Custom-crafted ceremonies to express your unique personality and perspective
Here you will find a selection of unique ceremony ideas for your Portland wedding
I created the following basic ceremony ideas to be be used in a number of ways. Some couples use them exactly as written, while others usethem as inspiration for their original ideas. You can also write your own ceremonyfrom scratch, and I'll help you fine-tune it. Either way, feel free to mix-and-match to create you own unique, customized ceremony.
Although I am not a religious minister in the traditional sense, I'm happy to include religious symbols if they have personal significance for you. For example, you might wish to include a wine glass breaking from the Jewish tradition, or jump the broom from the African tradition. My only request is that you learn about the history behind these traditions to make sure they are a good fit for you.
How to Use These Sample Ceremonies
If you use these samples exactly as they are written, they are about seven minutes long.
And seven minutes is a perfectly acceptable length for a ceremony.
You may want to add a few extra elements, which is fine.
Use these as a template for your Portland wedding ceremony, and add extra elements as you see fit.
We'll go over everything together to get it all fine-tuned!
I have dozens of unique ceremonies ideas,
and I'm posting just a few of them here.
If you'd like to see more
(or updates on these), contact me)
Sample Ceremony in Parts
Sample Ceremony alternatives
UNIQUE CEREMONY IDEAS FOR YOUR PORTLAND WEDDING
Have you Heard of Handfasting?
One of my favorite wedding rituals is Handfasting. It is a Celtic ritual in which the couples' hands are tied together with a ribbon or cloth. If you saw the movie BRAVEHEART you might remember the scene where they were married in the forest. The priest wrapped their hands in a strip of cloth (the bridge's family's tartan). One couple I married had a special cloth woven that incorporated the plaids from both of their clans. It's tied in a bow with an opening loose enough so that the hands can come out freely, or simply draped across the hands. The couple saves the ribbon or cloth as a keepsake.
Handfasting Variations (1)
UNIQUE CEREMONY IDEAS FOR YOUR PORTLAND WEDDING
The Apache Wedding Chant*
While not actually Apache in origin, this is a beautiful option for closing a ceremony.
It can can be combined with a handfasting, and modified in any way you wish.
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This is not an actual Apache ceremony. It was invented by a white novelist in 1947.
Read this interesting account by my fellow wedding officiant, Elizabeth Oakes.
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Portland Wedding Officiant
Rev. Dr. Terri Daniel